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Going #4000 to 40: It’s Not the Conversation, It’s the Self Talk Before
October 27 @ 10:00 am - 11:00 am PDT
Going #4000 to 40: It’s Not the Conversation, It’s the Self Talk Before RSVP
Paul Haury, Belonging Coach, Heart Based Leading
The part of a bi-weekly series on Heart-Based Leading
Topic: Working with Difficult People/ Having Difficult Conversations
The story you tell yourself is the story you live. And it’s almost impossible to change that story when you’re moving at 4000 words per minute, for yourself, let alone in hopes of influencing another to move towards a common goal with you. Imagine reading a road sign, as you speed by it at 4000 miles an hour.
While talking and listening in belonging, our mind slows down to about 40 words per minute. Your heart’s road signs, the cairns to your promised land, come back into view. You get there easier and faster. Slow is smooth, smooth is fast.
We’ll dive into this in a TEDx-like conversational and interactive experience, to give you an understanding of your belonging to help you see the road signs and avoid your potholes.
- The speed of self-talk, 4000 wpm
- Your Gator vs Your Judge (guess which makes 90% of your decisions)
- They have a Gator and a Judge too
- Conflict happens in collaboration, not outside of it, The 4 Goals of Conflict
WHAT TO EXPECT:
- Get aware of yourself and your story at 4000 & 40 wpm
- Understand that everybody has a Gator (that’s your superpower)
- Get connected with how you can approach conflict at 40 wpm
Paul guides people to experience belonging, in self-belonging, in their own brilliance, and within their company tribes, to really live & perform better than they ever imagined. He’s been an IT Director, a construction and a tech entrepreneur, a teacher, a building maintenance mechanic, child development counselor, marine mechanic, and a McDonald’s employee. In his most recent endeavors, he’s served as VP of people & culture and as a professional coach, specializing in belonging and optimal performance for individuals and OrgDev.
“I’ve found that we perform at our highest when we belong and believe in shared purpose together. There in belonging, we simply fear less and aspire more.”
He’s a guy who loves using belonging to get people living into their brilliance of their work & personal lives. In service of that, he coaches, he mentors, he chooses optimism & does his best to learn what motivates each person to work with how they can fully live, be better and get into their promised land. For those really committed to making what they have GAS (give-a-sh!#), getting unstuck, and shifting to their extraordinary level, he is their second heart and sets of eyes & ears, to help move them through their fears and deep into their aspirations.
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Who Can Attend & Fee
Event limited to only members of The Koa Club and their guests
Location/ Date & Time
Online via Zoom only:
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Date: Thursday, October 27, 2022
Time: 10:00am –11:00amPT/11:00am-12:00pmMT/12:00pm-1pmCT/1:00pm-2:00pmET