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Belonging is Being In and Having a Boundary 

December 1, 2022 @ 10:00 am - 11:00 am PST

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Presented by

Paul Haury, Belonging Coach, Heart Based Leading


The part of a bi-weekly series on Heart-Based Leading

Topic: How To Say “No” 

Belonging is also a boundary. Often, when I discuss this with leaders, they get very uncomfortable. Defining who’s in, also defines who’s out. But there’s clarity that also comes with that, especially in your self-belonging. Finding your No’s gets easier from there.  

On the nice side, in belonging, you’ll ask this question a lot less, “Ugh… Why did I say yes?” I’ll usually follow up with the inquiry, “Where did you lose yourself in this decision? Was it in the feel, own, or care for yourself?” 

We’ll dive into this in a TEDx-like conversational and interactive experience and explore and play with your source of No’s. 


  • Keeping yourself in your belonging
  • Your belonging litmus No Test: feel, own, and care relating to your no-compromise values
  • Your believing in shared purpose No Test


  • Get introduced to the comfort of your self-belonging boundary
  • Wrestle with your current personal and work boundaries that compete
  • Find your belonging boundaries in the things that you’re for, not against
  • Get to keep You in the equation 


Paul guides people to experience belonging, in self-belonging, in their own brilliance, and within their company tribes, to really live & perform better than they ever imagined. He’s been an IT Director, a construction and a tech entrepreneur, a teacher, a building maintenance mechanic, child development counselor, marine mechanic, and a McDonald’s employee. In his most recent endeavors, he’s served as VP of people & culture and as a professional coach, specializing in belonging and optimal performance for individuals and OrgDev.

“I’ve found that we perform at our highest when we belong and believe in shared purpose together. There in belonging, we simply fear less and aspire more.”

He’s a guy who loves using belonging to get people living into their brilliance of their work & personal lives. In service of that, he coaches, he mentors, he chooses optimism & does his best to learn what motivates each person to work with how they can fully live, be better and get into their promised land. For those really committed to making what they have GAS (give-a-sh!#), getting unstuck, and shifting to their extraordinary level, he is their second heart and sets of eyes & ears, to help move them through their fears and deep into their aspirations.

Follow him on social media:

Website: https://www.heartbasedleading.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-haury/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/PaulHaury

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/phaury/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PaulDHaury

Who Can Attend & Fee

Event limited to only members of The Koa Club and their guests

Location/ Date & Time

Online via Zoom only:


ID: 86033067809

*****Zoom link will also be provided in the RSVP confirmation email******

****** Members can also go to the event page to get the Zoom link if logged into the Membership portal****

Date: Thursday, December 1st, 2022

Time: 10:00am –11:00amPT/11:00am-12:00pmMT/12:00pm-1pmCT/1:00pm-2:00pmET



December 1, 2022
10:00 am - 11:00 am PST
Event Category:


Online Only
Via Zoom link provided United States + Google Map